Monday, March 3, 2025
Sunday, March 2, 2025
At 68...
At 68…
Realizing what I would have liked to know, really know, down into by bones, when I married the women of my life and what it would have meant for our three children…
I would have liked to know, really know, that her criticism was not a condemnation of my inaptitude to be a man, but a guidance to understand her and myself,
I would have liked to know, really know, that her doubts were not the end of all life but a step toward improvement,
I would have liked to know, really know, that her questions were not a call for a solution but an attempt to start a conversation,
I would have liked to know, really know, that her happiness was a guide to know her, not a present to me,
I would have liked to know, really know, the depth of unfairness women go through daily,
I would have liked to know, really know, that I was not expected to be the master nor the servant, nor the knight,
I would have liked to know, really know, that pretending to know was poison and that the admission of error or lack of knowledge was essential to a healthy relationship.
If I would have known this, I would have avoided…
For her, Anger, fights, fear, and despair
For myself, Anger, fights, fear, despair
For our children, fear, self-culpability and anger
And we would have more time to…
For us parents to…
To love them,
To Play with them,
For our children…
To grow stronger, to be more confident, more fulfilled.
A new World order?
In analyzing the recent tectonic political changes, including the slide of the US into fascism, I find it helpful to look at the Russian activities of the last 30 years.
All governments are worried about anarchy. That is fair. They all support a form of merit to organize role distribution. But the similarity ends there. Dictatorship’s definition of merit is to 98% a matter of power & wealth with very few left for true merit. Democracies vary on the power & wealth percentage, but true merit (empathy, passion, hard work, courage, care, dedication, knowledge, ethics, etc.) plays a larger role. In the last 30 years, the democratic merit implementation in democracies made immense stride because people are biologically attracted by ethical freedom. It empowers people to create and go beyond duty. It gives them the feeling of responsibility needed to further improve, question, progress, hope, care, etc.
This movement toward democracy has changed the balance of power away from countries like Russia. The additional geographic change brought by this democratic wave is a threat for any dictatorship. China can still count on a citizenship drive that Russia does not have at the same level but sooner or later they will have the same problem, namely that dictatorship is less attractive for citizens, and this, for many reasons. If one could measure freedom, even 1 % difference in freedom, provides an enormous attractive drive.
Then, if you are a dictatorship, how could you turn the tide? As usual dictators have at least a three pillar action plan:
1) 1) Hit those who want to move toward more democracy. They demonstrate no humane limit because justification always comes easy to dictators. Tools are numerous and of course include war, torture, and most pervasive, the individual exemplary ostracization.
2) 2) Demonstrate that democracy does not work. Here modern communication means are used ad libitum to move large section of the populations (often those forgotten by democracies) toward a violent discourse based on lies. Elections are a privileged moment as they bring a more rapid implementation when fascist parties obtain larger votes, thereby using democracy to kill democracy. This has happened worldwide, more recently in countries like in Hungary, Turkey, Austria, Germany, and the U.S.. These misinformation campaigns are done intensively by the Kremlin but also by China. Remember sooner or later, the power of freedom comes through, if not violently oppressed.
3) 3) The last and most important of the pillars is to take away the freedom from those who have more. This is the only one that deals with the long term. When reached, everyone is at eye level and no one remembers that things were and can be different. If this happens, this is the death of humankind and the birth of humanscourge.
In all these scenarios, there is the belief that a country can not be led without oppression. They consider that freedom is anarchy and are absolutely convinced that it is unavoidable that a few have all the power and wealth and that 99% of the citizen are there to serve them (well, they say a “higher purpose”). In doing so, they despise the human race as a whole and attribute value and merit to the “entitled”. Entitlement being also a human characteristic but not when it is based on power and wealth but on humane values like empathy, care, knowledge, courage, hard work, etc. These two convictions (Freedom for all VERSUS Freedom for the entitled) are at the base of all conflicts and most human sufferings.
The third pillar is playing out in the US through the action of elected players (Trump and Vance) and non-elected players, such as Musk, taking away thousands of jobs, threatening several citizens and non-citizens groups, and making life more difficult for the non-entitled. It would be naïve to think that this movement will be stopped when the non-entitled will rise. The brain-washed base of the “wealth entitled” is already ready to violently oppress the democrats who attempt to criticize them and to massacre and subdue the non-entitled. Few democrats will indeed be offered to join the entitled if they agree to play along. All this to say that before freedom will re-emerge, because it always does, there are many years of suffering for us non-entitled earthlings.
What we need to do is to never forget what care, love, empathy, real merit are and live them and transmit them to our children. Cultivate the practice of swarmship. And, yes, or course, fight for humane values, always, even if it means death. Because death of freedom and hope is worse than our own.
To the next Generations
Jacques
Thursday, November 9, 2023
Further managing the assholes (as defined by Harvard's Robert Sutton)
Considering that Governments' foundations around the world lay on one or an amalgame of the following ethics' form:
Thursday, November 2, 2023
QUANTICS
Relative quantum politic (Quantics)
It is not possible to define the Quantics components as they vary with time and space. They are diverse in nature.
It is only possible to define its goal which is an ethic of care. (See note 1)
Its tools are:
1- True communication, therefore the need to develop the abilities to engage with diversity and change
2- Its willingness to welcome
diversity, and its strength to defend its values.
3- Global social wellness and fairness. Global means earth.
4- Merit-based societies where empathy, kindness, creativity, courage, hard-work, knowledge are key values and where power, money, glory do not have value.
5- Economic system that value investment and avoid obscene (i) poverty (using care) and (ii) wealth (using taxes).
It exclude the following tools:
1- Violence
2- Abuse.
Quantics considers violence as a weakness and abuse as the dark side of the ego.
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Note 1: